What parent hasn't had a Calgon moment? And yes, a wonderful bubble bath helps to regroup and de-stress.
Proactive parenting requires that you take care of yourself so you have the wherewithal to manage your children. I am so sad when another parent rolls his eyes at the thought of caring for kids: "I can't stand 2 of them, how did you ever manage 4?" or "I'm dreading the summer... what will we do all summer long?" If you've ever gotten to this point then you are parenting reactively not proactively. Check out my Summer Ideas page here.
Take time out regularly so you are never short with the kids. Go out on dates with your spouse, take regular walks, bubble baths, quiet times for prayer and Bible study, etc. The English have their tea time. The rich have their cocktail hour. The Mexicans have their siestas. We can all learn from them! I began a habit to stop what I was doing about 3pm every afternoon to just sit and drink a cup of tea. It felt so good! Then I was recharged to take on the evening.
Sewing is my creative outlet that uses another part of my brain and truly helps me relax. Here is a creation for you...
This is a simple yet elegant window treatment sewn from hand embroidered linen napkins.
First I opened the napkins and gave them a good pressing. Then I placed them at a diamond shape, and folded over the top corner of each one.
Next I laid them out side by side, overlapping slightly. Then I simply stitched a wide seam straight across to allow a spring-loaded rod to go through.
The result is a beautiful vintage valence for your window. It allows plenty of sunlight!